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November 4, 2024 |
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ISSUE 138 |
"IF YOU AIN'T FIRST, YOU'RE LAST" — BUT SHOULD YOU GET A PRIZE, REGARDLESS?
The idea of participation awards, particularly in youth sports, has become a rather controversial topic, with some people arguing that they instill laziness, create a sense of entitlement, and convey inaccurate messages about everyone being a winner and others claiming that such prizes can help protect emotional health, serve as sources of encouragement, and result in overall positive attitudes. But what about when adults participate in competitions? When a person completes a road race (e.g., 5K, 10K, half marathon, marathon, etc.), he or she typically receives a participation medal, regardless of what that individual placed. A recent NatNews research initiative revealed that of those dear readers who responded, 33 percent believe that every runner should receive a medal for finishing a race, 20 percent think that runners should only receive finisher medals for some races (such as marathons), 7 percent said only winners should walk away with medals, and 40 percent don’t care either way. Montana resident Karen Brinkmann said she has strong opinions regarding who should receive a medal after finishing a race, acknowledging the positivity the accolade could provide in a person’s life. “I think it’s great when runners receive finisher medals,” she said. “Running is optional; competing is optional. Running a race can be very difficult, and a finisher medal might really mean something to the recipient. In some ways, it’s a souvenir of a fun event a person participated in.” Like Brinkmann, Dallas-area resident David Recker supports race medals being handed out, though he said it’s important to distinguish between a “finisher” and a “participant,” meaning the medal must be earned by completing a race in its entirety and crossing the finish line. “To me, road racing is a specific style of competition, and the finisher medal is a reward for completing a hard task,” he said. “Outside of Olympics or pro running, it doesn’t matter if you completed the task faster or slower than someone else. You’re only competing against yourself.” Not everyone is on board with each individual receiving a racing medal, though. Dallas-area resident and Fit Social Club owner Erin Vara, a former All-American Baylor University cross-country and track runner who also ran professionally, said she doesn’t think everyone should walk away from a race with a medal because it takes away from the race being a competition.
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"It’s one of the only sports where it’s completely objective—no real refs or timeouts,” she said. “It’s true sport. So let people win.” When it comes to kids’ sports leagues, however, Vara is not opposed to individuals receiving trophies, though she thinks the trophies or medals should designate the actual places earned and not simply recognize taking part in the sport. “Tenth place is still finishing the games and competition,” she said. “It’s not great, but you stuck it out. I feel like participation trophies and medals are a way to allow kids to throw in the towel. I think youth sports has gotten so out of control at a young age that participation trophies are a way to make up for the fact that parents are way too intense way too early in a child’s ‘career.’” Recker said he doesn’t think participation trophies are a good idea, either, noting that kids are smart enough to recognize that such an award is not the same as a winner’s trophy for the team or individual who proved to be the top finisher. “I don’t think participant trophies do anything to encourage engagement with the sport,” he said. “The specific style of competition determines winners and losers based on performance. I think it’s controversial because there is a hyperfocus on fairness. Equity is important, but providing a consolation prize just for participating is not aiding toward that conversation.” Brinkmann, however, is all for participation trophies for sports leagues and recalled how she felt when she received hardware near the end of the school year when she was a middle school cheerleader. “We cheered at all the football games (freezing weather in Chicago) and all of the basketball games,” she said. “In the spring, when all of the sports were over, we had a banquet. Each of us received a trophy, and I treasured it. Participating was fun and rewarding, but getting a trophy felt like a reward for enduring when things got hard. It was a reminder to press on and finish the ‘race.’ I’m not sure why my fellow Gen Xers and others are so opposed to them. The world needs more encouragement, and trophies and medals can really encourage people.” |
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CAREERS, PASSIONS, AND ENSUING HAPPINESS
According to a career report published last year, only 20 percent of Americans are passionate about their jobs, while 49 percent indicated being satisfied with the work they do. It’s true that not all passions can turn into full-time profitable career paths, but that doesn’t mean that individuals can’t develop passions for the jobs they work—but it also doesn’t mean that will be the outcome. Sacramento-area resident Ashley English said it’s important for a person to be happy in his or her job to the extent that he or she doesn’t dread each workday. “You need to be doing work that stimulates and challenges you,” she said. “Even if you aren’t passionate about it, if you are learning new things and enjoying meeting new goals, I think that can be enough and furthers you as an individual.” And sometimes people wind up in careers simply because they pay well or at least are substantial enough to provide for those who work in them. Craig Stewart, who lives in the U.K., said he believes that it’s important to be passionate about your job as long as you can earn more than a certain amount to pay for basic living expenses. “If you can’t afford food, house, etc., I don’t think it matters, because it’s more about being able to afford to live, and you don’t need to enjoy [your work],” he said. Stewart also pointed out that if a person is miserable and often stressed in his or her career, that unhappiness can impact life outside of work, including in one’s family. He said the issue can become more troublesome the longer the individual remains in that field. “You are less likely to progress in your career if you hate your job, as you’ll be unmotivated,” he said, “which will mean you’ll end up being in that job longer, unless you have the confidence to quit and change jobs.” However, if a person does find himself or herself in a profession that doesn’t necessarily spark passion and excitement, English said there are certainly still other ways to pursue interests in other areas of life. |
“Sometimes that’s in volunteer work or who you donate to,” she said. “There are jobs out there that no one will ever be passionate about but, of course, have to be done. I think it would be horrible to think we all should be passionate about our jobs because then that means some people are in the wrong field. In reality, though, if they don’t mind the work and are challenging themselves and finding their passions elsewhere, I think that’s more sustainable for people’s overall happiness. After all, there is so much more to life than work.” While there are plenty of other aspects of life than careers, people spend a large portion of their waking hours working—which is one reason why Stewart said a person’s job can have a powerful impact on his or her life, in general. “If you don’t have hobbies outside of work, I think it’s even more important, as you won’t have other things to look forward to after work and on weekends,” he said. English also acknowledged the significant amount of time people spend at their jobs (and, if going into a workplace, with their coworkers) every week and said, as a result, careers are vital to overall happiness. “If you are miserable there, it’s going to negatively impact the rest of your life,” she said. “It’s important to me to feel fulfilled in my work but also have a work-life balance that lets me pursue other passions, hobbies, and—of course, most importantly—time with loved ones.”
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