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January 6, 2025 |
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ISSUE 147 |
"TREAT YOURSELF LIKE THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE"
When a new year begins, many individuals like to take the opportunity to reset, develop new habits, and set new goals. For some people, doing so might include different forms of self-care to experience a higher quality of life. Gretchen Rubin, New York Times bestselling author of The Happiness Project, suggests that making time for small treats to provide oneself on a daily basis can heavily impact a person’s overall happiness. Similarly, David G. Allan, CNN features executive editor, believes that intentionally giving oneself a daily “present” will help spark joy. The gifts to which each of these authors refer don’t necessarily require any monetary purchase—they can simply include something each day (e.g., reading, playing a game with family, chatting with a friend, eating outside, taking a bath, etc.) that feels like a little treat. While they might seem small, they can have significant impacts in the lives of the individuals who take part in this practice. “I’ve had phases of my life when I have taken time each morning with a cup of tea and some time to meditate and journal,” Dallas-area resident Arinda Cale said. “In the past six months, I’ve not really taken that time because life has been a bit consuming. I’ve made a commitment to myself to do this daily in 2025—no excuses—because it makes such a difference.” Cale said she thinks that prioritizing making concerted efforts to “treat” oneself is an essential component of an individual’s overall well-being. “In my opinion, taking time to connect with yourself and giving yourself time and attention will ground you faster than anything,” she said, “and being grounded in who you are will keep you from compromising your values.” Some individuals might not necessarily gift themselves in different ways every single day but do attempt to do so on a rather consistent basis. Dallas resident Bob Heine said he estimates that he focuses on “me time” an average of five times each week.
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“I completed the 75 Hard challenge a couple of years ago, and that experience taught me to prioritize myself more often than I had previously,” he said. “Reading almost daily is a result of that. I also meditate and spend time recounting recent experiences for positives and for learning opportunities.” Heine said he thinks that it’s important for a person to take time for himself or herself and check in to see how that individual is progressing toward goals. “Looking back and noticing your achievements—both large and small—helps promote a more positive mindset,” he said. In terms of prioritizing giving himself little “presents,” Heine said over the last two years, he has made efforts to focus on himself more than he has in the past. “I can’t comment on research in this area, but in my personal experience, compared to any other time in my adult life, I’ve had the least amount of drama, anxiety, and negative experiences,” he said. And the positive outcomes that often ensue can start with a simple mindset shift that leads to taking action. In the same way that it is a valuable and meaningful practice to treat others with kindness, Cale believes that it’s also wise to act in the same way toward oneself. “I think the little ‘presents’ are so important,” she said. “Also, take yourself on vacation, and buy yourself something special when you can. Basically, treat yourself like the love of your life. Show up for yourself like you would show up for anyone you love.” |
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TAKE A LOOK — IT'S IN A BOOK
Though reading is a common pastime, studies indicate that only 32 percent of the U.S. population reads books for the pure enjoyment of doing so. However, getting into the habit of reading regularly can be highly beneficial, including in terms of social cognition abilities and overall empathy and understanding of others. The amount of time spent reading doesn’t need to be extravagant, though, and can differ from person to person. Dallas resident Craig Borkenhagen said he reads his Bible and a devotional every morning, though the frequency of additional reading outside of his morning routine is not as consistent. “Sometimes I’ll read for pleasure for 30 minutes a day or more, sometimes not at all,” he said. “At the moment, I’m closer to the 30-minutes-a-day side of the pendulum.” People who read by choice and not because of requirements for school, work, etc. also have varying reasons for doing so. For Borkenhagen, reading is an opportunity to escape into a place that isn’t his norm. “I enjoy the creative, imaginative aspect of reading—being transported to a different world and imagining myself in that world,” he said. “It’s especially great when that world hasn’t been made for me by a movie.” Like Borkenhagen, Dallas-area resident Katie Kennedy Laing averages approximately 30 minutes per day of reading. She said she appreciates the opportunity to learn more and expand her horizons. “I like reading fiction to converse with friends and see if I have different opinions than they do,” she said. “Similarly, I like historical fiction and/or nonfiction to learn more about the world.” Anna Tobkin, who lives in the Kansas City area, said she enjoys becoming absorbed in stories, though she is almost exclusively an audiobook listener. “Physical reading isn’t my jam, but I love a good audiobook,” she said. “I listen almost anytime I’m in the car, so primarily to and from work. My commute is about 25 minutes, so it’s a perfect time to get a good dent in each book.” Tobkin said one reason she is such a fan of audiobooks is because they provide different worlds for her to imagine while she does something she considers monotonous, such as driving. “I also enjoy hearing the delivery of the story by the voice actors,” she said. “It adds so much color beyond the words on pages.” |
While Tobkin only started going through several books each year a couple of years ago, she said the hobby has allowed her to develop a deeper appreciation for storytelling as well as help her to relax. “Listening to an audiobook after work is a good way for me to unwind,” she said. For Borkenhagen, he said the most significant benefit he has experienced from reading is an increased understanding of the world and more exposure to certain aspects of it. “Reading allows me to see ‘real’ problems or ideas through the authors’ eyes,” he said. “I like seeing what others have to say and the ways they do that through all of the various forms of writing.” Individuals who consistently read also benefit in other ways, including improved brain health and strengthened problem-solving skills. Kennedy Laing said reading has helped expand her vocabulary and allowed her to have more in-depth conversations with people in her life. “I think reading makes everyone more conversational,” she said. “When we read, we can have discussions about either real or fictional things that lead to more thoughtful conversations.” Borkenhagen said he also recognizes the positive impacts reading has on a person’s intelligence. “It’s almost imperceptible, like osmosis or something,” he said. “I feel like one big part of that is simply attention span. Being able to sit down and read words on a page instead of being on our phones doomscrolling through Instagram can only be good for us.” Both fiction and nonfiction books can not only increase knowledge but can also help people develop or improve their cultural awareness. “I definitely think reading makes people smarter and gives perspective of different worlds other than the ones they live in,” Tobkin said. “Reading about the struggles and events of others helps a reader understand more about their world.”
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